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University appologize for past racial discriminatory policies
The first step is accepting a mistake was done … and Bob Jones University has taken it by apologizing for its past racist policies, not forgetting the ban on interracial dating (which was lifted in 2000) and disinclination to admit black students up until 1971. The university president, Stephen... full story
Is oral sex more intimate?
It can be extremely pleasurable for men and women especially … you know, the clit stimulation … need I say more? It is one of the moist most exceedingly erotic, loving and satisfying, sexual activities you can allow yourself the luxury of. So why is this particular act a source of dissatisfaction... full story
Chronic pyjama wearing good for relationships?
Familiarity in relationships: Is it good (signifying intimacy) or bad (complacency)
Some new poll claims romance lasts exactly two years, six months and 25 days. After this, couples stop trying and start wearing their night gowns during the day, leaving dirty laundry lying on the floor and... full story
Pregnancy risks in Asian-White couples
The risk of having pregnancy complications such as gestational diabetes, low birth weight or Cesarean delivery, differs among various ethnic groups, studies have shown. Researchers at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital and the Stanford University School of Medicine, looking at interracial... full story
Breath life into your dying love
Want to resuscitate your dying love affair? Try these simple tips
Once upon a time, there was love, and then came the dream wedding. But now … the inevitable decline into boredom, past sell-by date sex routines and constant wrangling. Even TV shows like “Everybody Loves Raymond” or “The... full story
Strategic colorblindness–Is it racist?
White Americans apparently don’t like to talk about race. They either go silent or act ‘colorblind’ on the topic so as not to appear prejudiced. According to new research, by Tufts University and Harvard Business School this tendency could do more harm than good.
Researcher Evan Apfelbaum,... full story
Honey, time to shed those pounds off
Most women can’t stand their men’s constant nagging about the extra pounds they have gained. Sometimes it makes them eat more instead of shedding the pounds. Some woman’s hubby used to nag her about her weight but whenever she finally dropped her weight, the dude bought her cookies.... full story
Relationship issues: To tell or not to tell
Is it ok to spill your relationship issues to your best friends?
When it comes to relationships, most people – women especially – find it hard to balance between respecting their partners and confiding in friends. I am a woman and trust me…that line is very thin!
Most women... full story
Are you willing to give love a second chance?
Once bitten twice shy they say. With the supposed demise of romance, more people are shying away from love.
When someone dumps you for someone else - especially after having gone extra miles for them - it wont be easy to gamble with your heart and feelings again. Some people go into depression... full story
Seniors and racial bias: Is it medical?
Ever wondered why suddenly your aging parents don’t want you dating interracially? Well, it may not be their fault. When the conversation turns to ethnic groups to which they don’t belong, the sweet old aunt may not seem so sweet coz of the flights of shocking prejudice. Most of us usually assume... full story
Are you being manipulated in the name of love?
So you like doing stuff for your partner, believing its out of love. Are you sure someone isn’t subtly pulling your strings?
You might argue you are doing stuff for your partner simply because you are caring and affectionate, but your friends don’t see it that way. And as soon as you step... full story
Constructive criticism–what do men really think?
Does your dude think your feedback is nagging?
“My father, who kept industrial-grade acetone in the house to perfect the kitchen counters, was constantly after me about cleaning the pig sty that was my bedroom floor. ‘Man, I can’t wait to get out of here and get a girlfriend’,... full story
Woman suffers stroke after sex
“Sex COULD kill you. Do you know what the human body goes through when you have sex? Pupils dilate, arteries constrict, core temperature rises, heart races, blood pressure skyrockets, respiration becomes rapid and shallow, the brain fires bursts of electrical impulses from nowhere to nowhere, and... full story
Are some interracial dating crossovers more acceptable?
When it comes to interracial dating, people will always raise eyebrows. But some interracial dating combinations seem to be everywhere; for example White men – Asian women, Black-White dating to name a few.
Most Asian women admit crossing over allows them a different kind of freedom. It... full story
Virgins: Curse or Blessing?
Case 1: “Ever since I told the guy I met the other day that I am a virgin, he never picks my calls,” went my 31-year-old pal Christie.
Case 2: “Why does the guy I’m seeing like me more since I told him I was a virgin?” That one I got from some dating advice blog. The dude... full story
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Black women and marriage – Who will tell the truth?
It is easier to cast black women as undesirable – too educated, too black, too … you know those names you keep calling them. But have you ever stopped... full story
Why he is “small”
Most of us (men and women alike) obsess about a man’s size. And I am not talking about his height or shoe size … his package. Well if you are always... full story
Overt and covert racism
Paula (Asian) thinks it’s a lot easier to deal with overt racism. When someone calls her “slitty eyes” or when people pull back their... full story
Premarital counseling: Is it necessary?
Whether or not to attend premarital counseling is what most couples planning a wedding have to decide. Most people I know do it; I kinda assume it’s... full story
Till vegan diet do us part
Some people give up certain foods by choice (like a kosher or vegan diet) or necessity (a gluten allergy). So what happens when you fall in love with... full story
Biracial and hating the other side
This is a Tyra show video about biracial women who hate one side of their racial composition or the other.
Most biracial people... full story
Quit settling for mediocre sex
In relationships, there are so many deal-breakers. Some of the qualities our prospective partners possess unalterable and these do purge any possibility... full story
Does she baby you?
Why is it that at the first indication of a committed relationship, a woman tends to treat her man as a child?
This is somewhere along the list... full story
Myth of the perfect stranger
The perfect stranger … never met him or her but he or she must be out there … that dream man or woman. That’s what most of us in relationships... full story
Tickle her to bed
Are men who make fun of themselves seen as sexy? ‘Hell yeah!’ says a study by University of New Mexico where a group of women listened to... full story
University appologize for past racial discriminatory policies
The first step is accepting a mistake was done … and Bob Jones University has taken it by apologizing for its past racist policies, not forgetting... full story
End her bedroom acting career thusly
A lot of men just barely miss the mark.
Dr Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First.
Most women don’t want to thrash their men’s... full story
Is oral sex more intimate?
It can be extremely pleasurable for men and women especially … you know, the clit stimulation … need I say more? It is one of the moist most exceedingly... full story
Chronic pyjama wearing good for relationships?
Familiarity in relationships: Is it good (signifying intimacy) or bad (complacency)
Some new poll claims romance lasts exactly two years, six... full story
If I knew then…
What love and sex advice would you give your younger self?
Wasted youth … retrospective clarity on mistakes of our past! All these exist for... full story





